Sunday, June 20, 2010

That unputdownable moment!

            How often do we manage to bring ourselves to applaud someone’s success whole-heartedly and sans any malice? How frequently do we come across people who appreciate others’ achievements without any envy? The odds are very low, if not negligible and when you do come across such a situation, believe me, you have reasons to celebrate.
            I believe someone who receives such adulation is a blessed person, for he is loved in the purest of all forms. Envy, I believe is the worst of all cardinal sins, for it reflects the shallow you and yet, I find myself privy to this emotion very frequently. Lamenting the lack of something which the other person has and wishing you would rather be the one who had it, comes very naturally and easily to most of us. It is not totally our fault but that of our endless insecurities and so we end up taking the easier of the two routes.
            It is easier to hate than love, easier to loathe than appreciate. You can count yourself lucky if you have that one person in your life whom you can wish all the delights sans any hidden agendas, whom you can love without any reasons, whom you can appreciate without needing a motivation and whose success and achievements would matter to you more than your own. The realization of this feeling, the dawning of this delight is the purest and the most ecstatic of all forms of happiness, as pure as a child’s laughter and as unadulterated as the first rain drops.
            A few days back, my dear friend, your success brought me this delight and allowed the lesser mortal in me to experience this unputdownable joy and be immortalized for that one moment of time. Thank you, from the bottom of my heart and cheers to you!

4 comments:

  1. You have written about something which most of us would feel difficult to describe.Its a very true feeling which almost everyone goes through.In my opinion ,its something which recedes with time , with your own accomplishments in life.You can say that at some point in life you become mature enough to ignore such feelings and take happiness in other's success. On the other hand if you love the other person whole heartedly , then there is no point of this feeling coming to existence. Grate work. A nice write up.. as always :)

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  2. You are one of my most staunch supporters when it comes to writing. Thanks for the encouragement, you know how much it means to me.

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  4. what is it that ur glad about? I lost ur perspective mid way. but I think u need to re read ur writing again

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