Strange as it may sound, I dedicate this piece to the sun, the clouds, the trees, the hills and foremost to the sunshine in my life.
Moral Rearmament Camp. Sounds as far from me as a star would be from the earth. Honestly, given a choice, I would have never gone for such a camp. I am not much of a believer of switching off from the world in order to go on a journey of self-exploration. For me, self-actualization comes in any form, in any way, anytime you are ready for it. The minute I am making a deliberate attempt to shut down my brains from a particular thing, I can be assured that I shall not be successful in my endeavor. However, my college authorities never agreed with my intellectual insights and so I set for Panchgani on a cold, Saturday morning, thoroughly deprived off sleep and cribbing about it at length.
Panchgani is located at roughly four and a half thousand metres above the sea level in the rain shadow area of the Krishna valley. Without any exaggeration, the valley is amongst the most beautiful places I have ever set my eyes upon, second only to Patratu valley of Jharkhand. It is quiet, serene, laidback and despite being used to a much faster and hectic lifestyle, I could not but appreciate what it stood for.
The place is quiet, almost eerie in night. You will find just a few buildings in more than 60 acres of space in the Asia Plateau and big jungles elsewhere. Small pathways meander through different landscapes, some on plains while other over heights and all of them are enriched with various species of flora and fauna. When it comes down to it, it gets very dangerous and I still cannot forget the sight of that baby snake I spotted on the first afternoon of my four-day trip. The icing on the cake, however, is the sight of the table-land guarding the Asia Plateau. It is the second largest table-land in Asia and the sight up there is one to behold.
Coming back to the purpose of the trip, which by the way was not merely sight-seeing, we had various sessions on moral-building, teamwork, effective leadership etc. but there are two I specially want to mention, ones that actually touched my soul. The first one was a session taken by Mr. Deepak Mullick, a successful corporate by all means. His story, one where he overcame medical and moral obstacles of his life, is one that effortlessly inspires you. It is not possible to pen down every bit of his one hour long session but I would like to share a lyrical piece with you all that was written to Mr. Mullick by a Baramati farmer friend of his when he was almost down and out. It goes as follows:
Look beyond
Until you feel better
Be patient and wait
For patience is truly
A wonderful trait
For most of life’s battles
Are won beyond the field
Fight it out, don’t turn away
Problems are fickle, you will find a way
When the sun comes out
And the clouds float away
Simple, beautiful lines which say a lot even when they apparently say nothing at all. The second session was even better, one on human relationships. In our race towards the oasis of success and achievement, we forget that our life is enriched by the people who are a part of us and not by the amount of wealth we accumulate or the fan following we manage to acquire. Our relationships take a backseat giving a way to our ambitions. Sadly, by the time we realize where we went wrong, it is too late to go back. I am not going to be philosophical but in all sincerity, I would urge each one of you to get a hold of your personal life before it is too late. It is never too late to do the right thing.
I learnt a valuable lesson, one which I should have learnt ages back. For me, the USP of the camp was the session on human relationships and with it, the purpose of the camp was justified. I stood corrected at the end of the camp; it was not futile after all! I only wish I had realized it back then what I did after this camp.
Saturday, January 2, 2010
Monday, December 7, 2009
Convocation..and the road ahead
“To those who are present and those who have been permitted to remain absent, I now confer upon you, this degree of Bachelor of Computer Applications.”
These words will remain in my memory etched permanently. It was my Convocation day yesterday, a day when I finally graduated, a day when I crossed a barrier but also one when I acquired new responsibilities. Graduation is merely a stopover because there are so many heights that still remain to be scaled. However, the euphoric feeling of being a graduate, of wearing the Italian gown and flinging the hat up in the air, of rising from your seat as your degree is conferred upon you; ah! It is unparallel!
Youth is no more about being rashly independent or devoid of responsibilities. Youth is about independence, youth is about innate power and potential. With independence comes responsibilities, towards one’s nation, towards one’s family and friends but most significantly, towards oneself. The greatest injustice you can do to yourself is probably to mar your capabilities and end up as an under-achiever. This, when it comes from one of the most lethargic, complacent and under-achievers you shall ever know, is to make you take a pause. Take that pause and think. Forget your country, parents, everything; for it is a moment just meant for self-analysis. There are so many scientists, warriors, sportsmen; who have achieved fame, wealth, adulation, everything. Am I asking you to tread the path they have had? No. These things may matter for some and hold no meaning for others. Your contentment and peace of mind matters most to you and rightly so. My question to you is, will you be at peace if you remain where you are? Youth needs to be impatient, for humanity respects that impatience. Youth has to crave for more, scale new heights, make their own goals and achieve them. Gone are the days when a mere 9 to 5 job and a lucrative salary meant end of your desires. These things still do matter but self-actualization has taken the front seat.
We live in an age, in an era where probably the most significant thing for us is ourselves. We love challenges, we love bets, we are audacious enough to hope and bet against the odds. That is what makes us different from our forefathers for we have the bottom-to-top approach, unlike our ancestors. We believe in shaping our lives first and trust me, that is the right way to go. Unless you have built the smallest unit right, the entire machine will never work properly. Unless your smallest pipe isn’t clog-free, water shall not flow out even from the largest of your canals. What I am hinting here is to make sure that we are hungry, we are passionate, we go all out to achieve goals for ourselves; for only after then can we do some service to our country. Our country is made up of us, we are its future. Let us put one piece on its place at a time.
As Dr. Shashi Tharoor said yesterday-“the impatience of youth needs to be respected, for there lies the key to the progress of a growing nation.” The thing is, we need to be impatient first. With these thoughts and the euphoria of having graduated, I now set upon, first to celebrate my graduation and then to higher destinations.
These words will remain in my memory etched permanently. It was my Convocation day yesterday, a day when I finally graduated, a day when I crossed a barrier but also one when I acquired new responsibilities. Graduation is merely a stopover because there are so many heights that still remain to be scaled. However, the euphoric feeling of being a graduate, of wearing the Italian gown and flinging the hat up in the air, of rising from your seat as your degree is conferred upon you; ah! It is unparallel!
Youth is no more about being rashly independent or devoid of responsibilities. Youth is about independence, youth is about innate power and potential. With independence comes responsibilities, towards one’s nation, towards one’s family and friends but most significantly, towards oneself. The greatest injustice you can do to yourself is probably to mar your capabilities and end up as an under-achiever. This, when it comes from one of the most lethargic, complacent and under-achievers you shall ever know, is to make you take a pause. Take that pause and think. Forget your country, parents, everything; for it is a moment just meant for self-analysis. There are so many scientists, warriors, sportsmen; who have achieved fame, wealth, adulation, everything. Am I asking you to tread the path they have had? No. These things may matter for some and hold no meaning for others. Your contentment and peace of mind matters most to you and rightly so. My question to you is, will you be at peace if you remain where you are? Youth needs to be impatient, for humanity respects that impatience. Youth has to crave for more, scale new heights, make their own goals and achieve them. Gone are the days when a mere 9 to 5 job and a lucrative salary meant end of your desires. These things still do matter but self-actualization has taken the front seat.
We live in an age, in an era where probably the most significant thing for us is ourselves. We love challenges, we love bets, we are audacious enough to hope and bet against the odds. That is what makes us different from our forefathers for we have the bottom-to-top approach, unlike our ancestors. We believe in shaping our lives first and trust me, that is the right way to go. Unless you have built the smallest unit right, the entire machine will never work properly. Unless your smallest pipe isn’t clog-free, water shall not flow out even from the largest of your canals. What I am hinting here is to make sure that we are hungry, we are passionate, we go all out to achieve goals for ourselves; for only after then can we do some service to our country. Our country is made up of us, we are its future. Let us put one piece on its place at a time.
As Dr. Shashi Tharoor said yesterday-“the impatience of youth needs to be respected, for there lies the key to the progress of a growing nation.” The thing is, we need to be impatient first. With these thoughts and the euphoria of having graduated, I now set upon, first to celebrate my graduation and then to higher destinations.
Monday, November 23, 2009
From the eyes of a beholder..
It was a warm Tuesday morning, like any other in that part of the city. The railway station being one of the busiest in the country, it was no surprise that at any given moment, thousands of travelers thronged in and out of the various platforms. A normal morning and an even more normal sight. Yet, for one particular passenger coming out of platform no.16, that morning was special, for how often do the people on streets welcome you before the first rays from the sun hit the streets? That passenger was me, coming out of Howrah station and I was in Calcutta, at long, last!
To be honest, I had gone to Calcutta with a set of prejudices, those being the exploding population and the smuttiness on the roads. However, one hour in the city and I was ready to look at it with an unbiased point of view, not because I fell head over heels in love with the city but courtesy a simple rationale. A city whose inhabitants have had the senses to maintain their heritage right from the Victorian era have to be given the credit due to them and this is precisely why it wasn’t a surprise to find out the little but important things about the city I eventually did.
Probably one of the best things about Calcutta is that the minute you step out of the railway station, the Howrah Bridge welcomes you. It feels like a homecoming of sorts, what with arguably the city’s most important construction greeting you. One may stand beneath it and admire it at bay. For someone like me with an intensive love for architectural marvels, this and the Victoria Memorial present a very pleasing sight for I can spend a lifetime there and you have to experience looking at the Ganges from atop the bridge to know what I am talking about.
Calcutta is any tourists’ delight. You have a variety of places to visit and you can pick and choose them depending on your tastes. You have Howrah Bridge, Vidyasagar Setu, Victoria Memorial, High Court, the Indian Museum, Queen’s Mansion etc. for the heritage buffs, Science city for the geeks, Belur Math, Dakshineshwar temple and Kalighat etc. for the spirituals and the Eden Gardens for the cricket lovers. I was lucky enough to be able to go in and it was more than a pilgrimage of sorts. Having said that, the real Calcutta doesn’t lie in places I have mentioned for you cannot know what the city has in store for you by merely visiting these places. The real Calcutta lies in places like Babughat or Gariahat for these have the spirit of joy we know Calcutta for. People may have little or more than what they need, yet you will find the sense of contentment in both the cases.
At best, I can define Calcutta as a city of paradoxes. There is a strange sense of calm even in the loudest of clutter. There is beauty on every nook and corner despite the filth on the streets. The life is slow but the buses are fast enough to scare the living delights out of you. There is variety even in the most mundane of activities. There is spice in the sweetest of things. You are alone in the most crowded of places and even when you are alone, you are in sync with what is around you. You sit with a thousand others inside Belur Math and yet you are alone with your God. You go with a select few to watch a movie at Menoka and yet the entire theatre watches it together, echoing the same comments, same sentiments. People maybe divided between Mamta Banerjee and Buddhadeb Bhattacharjee but are united as one when inside the Eden Gardens.
Calcutta is an eclectic mix of present and past, good and bad, slow and fast. It becomes very difficult for me to talk about this city, to rate it or worse still, to echo what I feel for this city; for how do you explain something that is best understood when experienced, best felt when you are a part of it and best seen yourself and not through someone else’s eyes? Calcutta is an experience, a beauty to behold and a memory to treasure. It is ‘madlee bangaliii’ as they say and therefore it isn’t a wonder that it is the ‘city of joy’.
To be honest, I had gone to Calcutta with a set of prejudices, those being the exploding population and the smuttiness on the roads. However, one hour in the city and I was ready to look at it with an unbiased point of view, not because I fell head over heels in love with the city but courtesy a simple rationale. A city whose inhabitants have had the senses to maintain their heritage right from the Victorian era have to be given the credit due to them and this is precisely why it wasn’t a surprise to find out the little but important things about the city I eventually did.
Probably one of the best things about Calcutta is that the minute you step out of the railway station, the Howrah Bridge welcomes you. It feels like a homecoming of sorts, what with arguably the city’s most important construction greeting you. One may stand beneath it and admire it at bay. For someone like me with an intensive love for architectural marvels, this and the Victoria Memorial present a very pleasing sight for I can spend a lifetime there and you have to experience looking at the Ganges from atop the bridge to know what I am talking about.
Calcutta is any tourists’ delight. You have a variety of places to visit and you can pick and choose them depending on your tastes. You have Howrah Bridge, Vidyasagar Setu, Victoria Memorial, High Court, the Indian Museum, Queen’s Mansion etc. for the heritage buffs, Science city for the geeks, Belur Math, Dakshineshwar temple and Kalighat etc. for the spirituals and the Eden Gardens for the cricket lovers. I was lucky enough to be able to go in and it was more than a pilgrimage of sorts. Having said that, the real Calcutta doesn’t lie in places I have mentioned for you cannot know what the city has in store for you by merely visiting these places. The real Calcutta lies in places like Babughat or Gariahat for these have the spirit of joy we know Calcutta for. People may have little or more than what they need, yet you will find the sense of contentment in both the cases.
At best, I can define Calcutta as a city of paradoxes. There is a strange sense of calm even in the loudest of clutter. There is beauty on every nook and corner despite the filth on the streets. The life is slow but the buses are fast enough to scare the living delights out of you. There is variety even in the most mundane of activities. There is spice in the sweetest of things. You are alone in the most crowded of places and even when you are alone, you are in sync with what is around you. You sit with a thousand others inside Belur Math and yet you are alone with your God. You go with a select few to watch a movie at Menoka and yet the entire theatre watches it together, echoing the same comments, same sentiments. People maybe divided between Mamta Banerjee and Buddhadeb Bhattacharjee but are united as one when inside the Eden Gardens.
Calcutta is an eclectic mix of present and past, good and bad, slow and fast. It becomes very difficult for me to talk about this city, to rate it or worse still, to echo what I feel for this city; for how do you explain something that is best understood when experienced, best felt when you are a part of it and best seen yourself and not through someone else’s eyes? Calcutta is an experience, a beauty to behold and a memory to treasure. It is ‘madlee bangaliii’ as they say and therefore it isn’t a wonder that it is the ‘city of joy’.
Friday, October 30, 2009
101 Things to do in Pune
There are some things which you cannot explain. Love is one of those. No matter how much I crib, I love Pune to the core. This is a city that accepted me some three and a half years ago when I had no clue about my life (not that I have today either), a city where I found love, life and laughter (quite in that order too!), a place where I found friends for lifetime, joy in little things. Pune has been the crux of my life and aptly so. So when I’m given a chance, I can’t stop raving about Pune and as a tribute to this city, here I am with a list of 101 things you must do, when you stay here. Give Pune a chance. It made my life better, may the luck shine on you as well!
1) Find yourself friends like I did. Pune is no fun without your friends.
2) Take as many auto-rides as you can. You’ll crib about the rates, the attitude of the drivers but it’s worth every penny and more! It’s simply magical.
3) Sing Indian classical film songs loudly and hoarsely during the auto-rides, especially when passing by busy streets.
4) Play cards on Law College Road Barista.
5) Smoke at ‘the Wall’.
6) Sleep at 6 in the morning; wake up when you feel like.
7) Spend countless hours at a coffee shop of your choice (I recommend Barista), studying, spending time with your companions or doing nothing.
8) Watch the sun rise in Khadakwasla dam.
9) Watch Durga Pooja celebration at Congress Bhawan and Koregaon Park, lane no.7.
10) Pass by Prabhat Road after ten in night and smell the fragrance in the air.
11) Travel to places like Lonavla by train, walk miles from the station to drink a cup of tea from a particular tapri and back, and catch the next local back to Pune.
12) Trek up Singhgad Fort.
13) Shut yourself away from the world, stock up food/booze/fag and spend a day doing abstract things like reading Fyodor Doestovski’s White Nights from cover to cover or watching vernacular movies at length.
14) Walk down to places like High Spirits, Hard Rock Café, not drink and walk back.
15) Walk miles with friends, yet hire an auto for a 2 minute distance.
16) Go to crossword/landmark and spend an entire day reading.
17) Convert into a fabOHOLIC! (For those who didn’t get it, be a fab India patron).
18) Have Coffee Stop’s cold coffee at midnight (they close down by 11 30 now!).
19) Live in a space of your own, like a flat or a row-house.
20) Bike-ride on the Mumbai-Bangalore Expressway over a 100 km/hr.
21) Fight with the auto-drivers over the fare.
22) Watch every movie seated first row from the screen.
23) Travel to Mumbai by road.
24) Book a cab to Kashid, spend a leisurely day away from the world.
25) Cad B ice-cream at Kamla Nehru Park.
26) Walk on law college road at 4 in the morning.
27) Sit at om super market.
28) U have the toughest paper the next day,yet dnt study the entire nyt.
29) Spend lazy afternoons in kamla Nehru park.
30) Go mall hopping.
31) Watch people play cricket in law college cricket ground.
32) Take a train from pune to any place where you pass by the chambal ghati. It’s a journey worth every penny.
33) Go jogging early morning, in the busiest of streets like S.B. Road, law college road, bhandarkar n F.C. Rod.
34) Travel by the PMPML buses.
35) Force the auto guy to take wrong routes, get caught by the traffic police and pay the fine.
36) Stand in the long, seemingly unending and absolutely irritating queues outside the ATMs.
37) Go to far off places like Camp and Koregaon to eat the food of your choice.
38) Walk when there is an auto strike but don’t pay excess fare.
39) Visit the temples, the gurudwaras, the churches and the mosques.
40) Discover new routes to same destination.
41) Play in the Mulla river water.
42) Experience the fun of Water sports at Panshet.
43) Have the audacity to live the last week of month with last 100 Rs in pocket and no balance in the cell.
44) Stand up for yourself and the city during a disturbance like Feb,08 and the more recent swine flu.
45) Watch horror movies all night and get scary dreams.
46) Install a T.V. and the cable at home just to watch IPL.
47) Night outs!
48) Eat at Veer da Dhaba at midnight.
49) Walk a couple of miles at midnight to fetch coke from e-square and in order to eat anda-bhurji opposite jaayka in S.B. Road.
50) For a class of 8 30, reach at 9 30, get the attendance and rush back home to catch up on the sleep you had to forego.
51) Have the ‘Chaat’ at Canal Road and Manmeet.
52) Be a regular at places like Subway, Foodiez etc.etc.
53) Survive solely on junk food.
54) Never, ever make your own notes but be smart enough to get the best ones photocopied well in advance.
55) Stay in Pune for a festival or two. The city is at its best.
56) Enjoy the craze of Ganpati Festival.
57) Watch the moon from your balcony and while the entire night just like that.
58) Get wet in the Pune rains.
59) Join the best and the most expensive gym, only to end up watching TV all the time.
60) Go shopping at Tulsibaug.
61) Dream big, join IMS and CareerForum etc. only to never go there.
62) Surprise the people who mean the most to you and see the glimmer in their eyes.
63) Go to Pune station 2 have anda bhurji, chaai etc. at the oddest of hours.
64) Walk someone home.
65) Take odd trips alone!
66) Listen to the same song in loop at home when you are down.
67) Go to Essel World/Water Kingdom.
68) Trek up Hanuman Tekri.
69) Be an Airtel customer. It’s a lot cheaper to connect through this and comes in handy during the ‘recession’ week of the month.
70) Play chess at Barista.
71) Own a bike, car anything(preferably a bike).
72) If and when you have to buy books, buy from Appa Balwant Chauk. They have the cheapest rates.
73) Go to the most expensive of hospitals even when you have a trivial cough.
74) Eat road-side food, fall sick, crib, and vow never to eat there again, recover, only to eat there again.
75) Play street cricket.
76) If you drink, visit places like Apache.
77) Watch football matches at Toons.
78) Visit wonder funkey.
79) An evening at 3D destination.
80) If you are into clubbing, visit all the clubs on the nights when couple entry is free. Don’t worry about a partner, you will find many at the entrance looking for one.
81) Work or get an internship. Pune is a fab place to work.
82) Take frequent bike trips to places like Lonavla at 3 in the night(this one is specially for guys).
83) Experience random and abstract photography.
84) Navigate the city during Sant Gyaneshwar’s Paduka festival.
85) Sway to the beats of the Nashik Dhol.
86) Visit ABC Farms.
87) Sit on the footpaths and have a cup of tea/coffee. It’s a student’s prerogative here.
88) Specially wake up in the morning to have breakfast at places like Goodluck or in Karve Road.
89) Wander around the city. There’s so much to see.
90) If you are a history buff, visit places like Aga Khan Palace and Shanivarwaada.
91) Frequently visit DagruSheth Halwai Ganpati in Laxmi Road.
92) Go for evening walks in Range Hills.
93) Find out places/areas where you can get the cheapest and most durable stuff.
94) Discover the romantic in you.
95) Learn to live without electricity. Pune faces acute power crunch at times.
96) Live near a hyper-market. Half the times you will remember to buy a thing only exactly when you need it.
97) Shop! Splurge! If not here, then where?
98) Learn to play pool.
99) Live everyday here to the fullest. You won’t get the same life elsewhere.
100) Discover the innate potential you have.
101) Find that perfect companion to do all this with!
1) Find yourself friends like I did. Pune is no fun without your friends.
2) Take as many auto-rides as you can. You’ll crib about the rates, the attitude of the drivers but it’s worth every penny and more! It’s simply magical.
3) Sing Indian classical film songs loudly and hoarsely during the auto-rides, especially when passing by busy streets.
4) Play cards on Law College Road Barista.
5) Smoke at ‘the Wall’.
6) Sleep at 6 in the morning; wake up when you feel like.
7) Spend countless hours at a coffee shop of your choice (I recommend Barista), studying, spending time with your companions or doing nothing.
8) Watch the sun rise in Khadakwasla dam.
9) Watch Durga Pooja celebration at Congress Bhawan and Koregaon Park, lane no.7.
10) Pass by Prabhat Road after ten in night and smell the fragrance in the air.
11) Travel to places like Lonavla by train, walk miles from the station to drink a cup of tea from a particular tapri and back, and catch the next local back to Pune.
12) Trek up Singhgad Fort.
13) Shut yourself away from the world, stock up food/booze/fag and spend a day doing abstract things like reading Fyodor Doestovski’s White Nights from cover to cover or watching vernacular movies at length.
14) Walk down to places like High Spirits, Hard Rock Café, not drink and walk back.
15) Walk miles with friends, yet hire an auto for a 2 minute distance.
16) Go to crossword/landmark and spend an entire day reading.
17) Convert into a fabOHOLIC! (For those who didn’t get it, be a fab India patron).
18) Have Coffee Stop’s cold coffee at midnight (they close down by 11 30 now!).
19) Live in a space of your own, like a flat or a row-house.
20) Bike-ride on the Mumbai-Bangalore Expressway over a 100 km/hr.
21) Fight with the auto-drivers over the fare.
22) Watch every movie seated first row from the screen.
23) Travel to Mumbai by road.
24) Book a cab to Kashid, spend a leisurely day away from the world.
25) Cad B ice-cream at Kamla Nehru Park.
26) Walk on law college road at 4 in the morning.
27) Sit at om super market.
28) U have the toughest paper the next day,yet dnt study the entire nyt.
29) Spend lazy afternoons in kamla Nehru park.
30) Go mall hopping.
31) Watch people play cricket in law college cricket ground.
32) Take a train from pune to any place where you pass by the chambal ghati. It’s a journey worth every penny.
33) Go jogging early morning, in the busiest of streets like S.B. Road, law college road, bhandarkar n F.C. Rod.
34) Travel by the PMPML buses.
35) Force the auto guy to take wrong routes, get caught by the traffic police and pay the fine.
36) Stand in the long, seemingly unending and absolutely irritating queues outside the ATMs.
37) Go to far off places like Camp and Koregaon to eat the food of your choice.
38) Walk when there is an auto strike but don’t pay excess fare.
39) Visit the temples, the gurudwaras, the churches and the mosques.
40) Discover new routes to same destination.
41) Play in the Mulla river water.
42) Experience the fun of Water sports at Panshet.
43) Have the audacity to live the last week of month with last 100 Rs in pocket and no balance in the cell.
44) Stand up for yourself and the city during a disturbance like Feb,08 and the more recent swine flu.
45) Watch horror movies all night and get scary dreams.
46) Install a T.V. and the cable at home just to watch IPL.
47) Night outs!
48) Eat at Veer da Dhaba at midnight.
49) Walk a couple of miles at midnight to fetch coke from e-square and in order to eat anda-bhurji opposite jaayka in S.B. Road.
50) For a class of 8 30, reach at 9 30, get the attendance and rush back home to catch up on the sleep you had to forego.
51) Have the ‘Chaat’ at Canal Road and Manmeet.
52) Be a regular at places like Subway, Foodiez etc.etc.
53) Survive solely on junk food.
54) Never, ever make your own notes but be smart enough to get the best ones photocopied well in advance.
55) Stay in Pune for a festival or two. The city is at its best.
56) Enjoy the craze of Ganpati Festival.
57) Watch the moon from your balcony and while the entire night just like that.
58) Get wet in the Pune rains.
59) Join the best and the most expensive gym, only to end up watching TV all the time.
60) Go shopping at Tulsibaug.
61) Dream big, join IMS and CareerForum etc. only to never go there.
62) Surprise the people who mean the most to you and see the glimmer in their eyes.
63) Go to Pune station 2 have anda bhurji, chaai etc. at the oddest of hours.
64) Walk someone home.
65) Take odd trips alone!
66) Listen to the same song in loop at home when you are down.
67) Go to Essel World/Water Kingdom.
68) Trek up Hanuman Tekri.
69) Be an Airtel customer. It’s a lot cheaper to connect through this and comes in handy during the ‘recession’ week of the month.
70) Play chess at Barista.
71) Own a bike, car anything(preferably a bike).
72) If and when you have to buy books, buy from Appa Balwant Chauk. They have the cheapest rates.
73) Go to the most expensive of hospitals even when you have a trivial cough.
74) Eat road-side food, fall sick, crib, and vow never to eat there again, recover, only to eat there again.
75) Play street cricket.
76) If you drink, visit places like Apache.
77) Watch football matches at Toons.
78) Visit wonder funkey.
79) An evening at 3D destination.
80) If you are into clubbing, visit all the clubs on the nights when couple entry is free. Don’t worry about a partner, you will find many at the entrance looking for one.
81) Work or get an internship. Pune is a fab place to work.
82) Take frequent bike trips to places like Lonavla at 3 in the night(this one is specially for guys).
83) Experience random and abstract photography.
84) Navigate the city during Sant Gyaneshwar’s Paduka festival.
85) Sway to the beats of the Nashik Dhol.
86) Visit ABC Farms.
87) Sit on the footpaths and have a cup of tea/coffee. It’s a student’s prerogative here.
88) Specially wake up in the morning to have breakfast at places like Goodluck or in Karve Road.
89) Wander around the city. There’s so much to see.
90) If you are a history buff, visit places like Aga Khan Palace and Shanivarwaada.
91) Frequently visit DagruSheth Halwai Ganpati in Laxmi Road.
92) Go for evening walks in Range Hills.
93) Find out places/areas where you can get the cheapest and most durable stuff.
94) Discover the romantic in you.
95) Learn to live without electricity. Pune faces acute power crunch at times.
96) Live near a hyper-market. Half the times you will remember to buy a thing only exactly when you need it.
97) Shop! Splurge! If not here, then where?
98) Learn to play pool.
99) Live everyday here to the fullest. You won’t get the same life elsewhere.
100) Discover the innate potential you have.
101) Find that perfect companion to do all this with!
Wednesday, October 14, 2009
Mutual Benefits Agreement
A hallmark day! We finally finished with our internal evaluations. it was a time when ideally, I should have gone out partying but one when I actually sat down thinking. With no impending assignments, this was a day i had been eagerly waiting for because I needed a much-needed break from studying. This, coming from me is quite rich. So I sat in my room which overlooks the
My life has turned upside down over the past few months, least for good. This has been perhaps one of the toughest and most challenging periods of my life wherein I seem to have matured dramatically fast. I see more logic than before and even though this era has not been high in terms of contentment, it is so in terms of learning.
One of the most different things I have learnt over a couple of months is the concept of Mutual Benefits Agreement (read: MBA). Not that I was earlier totally unaware of it, but seeing it here and living right in the middle of it is altogether a different ball-game. It’s very complex in implementation and yet so very simplistic in its approach. Allow me to enlighten the ignorant lot, if any. According to this concept, two or people mutually agree to be in each other’s company because:
i. They have no other company because of whatever is the reason.
ii. They each see some benefit in being with each other. This could be platonic, romantic, academic or simply because they like being with each other.
iii. They need a climber (know what I mean?)
iv. They are comfortable with each other because somewhere their thought is at the same plane and their thinking matches.
It can be easily assumed that almost everyone adopts this concept, more so in a B-school. This might easily be prevalent elsewhere also but because I am in one, I can see and relate to it better. This is not friendship as some of you might want to argue, this is merely a way to survive the two year imprisonment each one of us has granted ourselves willingly.
You are very lucky if you find a true friend in a B-school. It happens to very few. Most of the people I live around go by the philosophy of selective interaction. They talk to each other if and only if they need a job done, an errand run or if they are in the same assignment/presentation group. They’ll have a plastic smile fixed on their face, almost as irritating as the stewardesses of Jet Airways. They’ll strategize and put any politician to shame, screw people left and right; without so much of even batting an eyelid. You have got to see the finesse. You have to admire the thinking, the devotion given to planning and the smooth, sleek execution of a perfectly crafted plan. What is perhaps the disturbing fact here is the fact that many innocent people fall a prey to this and do not come out of the Utopian world, till the very end. Anyways, I am no social worker, so all I can realistically do, is to empathize with their plight, for they know not, what doom actually beckons them.
There are two ways of surviving these two years. First and the simpler way is to be what people want you to be and the second one is to be what you actually are. Till date I fail to understand the aura, the magic behind acting as something or someone you actually are not. I mean, how difficult is to be your real self? Each one of us is born special, different from the rest and better than the best. Still people crave to be what they actually are not and I have not been able to find any rhyme to that. This is a decision each one takes for himself and I have no qualms about it. But I do wonder whether it actually is worth the efforts.
You have got to be smart enough to know and realize what is right and what is wrong, you have to have the courage of not running behind the mirage. You have to be bold enough to be what you are and face the world. And if you can’t then I fail to see the purpose behind your degree, your education. Yes, you might land up with a great job, a great salary but what about your peace of mind? It may sound downright philosophical and straight out of an Ayn Rand novel but it’s a question each one of us faces at some point of time. Is a pretentious life what you came here for? Are you made for running behind elusive and absolutely worthless baubles? Is this your quest, your ultimate goal?
It’s easy to fall a prey to circumstances and hurdles that come your way but as Rabindranath Tagore said, the mind should be led forward by ever-widening thought and action. It is difficult, not to trod along a path that has already been traversed by millions but if you cannot dare to be different, if you cannot stand up to your own beliefs, if you do not have a philosophy for you life, what a waste of a great life!
In the end, the decision is ours, to be what others want us to or to be what we are. Education is not supposed to ruin us. It is supposed to give us a clarity of thought and to enable us to determine what is wrong and what is right. At the end, you should be able to stand up for your own self, for your own beliefs, for your own principles. What is right for me, may not be right for you. Find out what is right for you. Education is an endless pursuit, an ongoing quest to know yourself and your horizons.
So, I end the day, sipping a coke with the select few people whose thought matches mine, instead of painting the town red. That’s because I have found that it’s right for me and I have a quest for life. And as I walk back towards my room, Tagore’s words come floating by again.
Where the mind is without fear and the head is held high;
Where knowledge is free ;( and not according to MBA)
Where the world has not been broken up into fragments by narrow domestic walls;
Where words come out from the depth of truth;
Where tireless striving stretches its arms towards perfection;
Where the clear stream of reason has not lost its way into the dreary desert sand of dead habit;
Where the mind is led forward by thee into ever-widening thought and action;
Into that heaven of freedom, my Father,
Let my fellow-men awake.
Monday, October 12, 2009
Masters of Baniyagiri Administration
as i sit in my room while some of my colleagues are struggling with the recruiters from Goldman Sachs in a building just few steps away..i cannot help wonder that what is it that makes you join the rat race.MBA today is just not enough.you need to have a degree from a reputed college and in order to make your CV attractive,a good internship is a must.That is why when names like this visit the campus,its total pandemonium.People do not talk to another because each one is busy preparing for the interview secretly.the crowd in the mess thins down,so does the one that otherwise keeps loitering in and around the campus.people are locked in their rooms either strategizing or slogging and toiling(really???or mugging up formulae for the aptitude test?)it is a sight to behold,at best from an arm's length because the minute you are a part of this mud-slinging,nerve-wrecking rat race,you will,at some point or the other,curse your decision to join this.the amount of strategy that goes into each day,each minor 10-mark test can put any politician to shame,can give any john buchanan, any gary kirsten a run for his money.who says indians cannot be good coaches.please try the crowd here first.i'm sure the lot shall not disappoint you.
what is perhaps even more amusing to an extent of being disturbing is the CGPA system.we all have our own views for and against the system and i am strictly against the system.yes,the system does save us when we all(the entire class)fares badly in a subject. the drawback here is that it leaves ur future in the hand of others.so gone are the days when giving your best shot at something was considered the mantra for success.now your future is in my hand and vice versa.you cannot be good enough.you have to be as good as the next person and the next and the next.it leaves a large chunk of your fate on luck factor where you fare as well as your class of 40 permits you to be.the marks system in my opinion was much better where they tested you what percentage of the questions asked were known by you.the same pattern is followed here,only with an added spice of comparative scoring(read:CGPA). i have no clue when the educationists shall be able to come up with a full-proof system,if at all..but this one is not a very well-though solution.you get 90% marks only to be given a C-grade because of the CGPA system.does that necessarily mean you ARE a C-grade student??i shall leave the answer open to debate.
so while i sip a cup of coffee and rebuke myself at having scalded my tongue for the umpteenth time..n wait for a set of recruiters who think that 3-year graduation courses can yield personnel who are eligible for their company..i also leave you with a question.."where shall this rat race take our generation?"..n do not,for one second presume that i am not a part of it;for where else shall you get insights like these?
please vote,if you are eligible.that is one initiative which each one of you should take.
Cheers!
Sunday, September 20, 2009
dis one is for yu!!
jaagte mein bhi soti hai
kuch aankhein aisi hoti hai
bemausam kaliyon ki maanoos
kisi lamha haule haule khilti hai
humne bhi ek roz dekhi thi
aisi gahri mashaal aankhein
duniya ki iis bheed me jaise
sangeen akele wo aankhein thi
yun to ab tak jitni guzri thi
bade hi khushfahmiyo me guzri thi
par wo aankhein
aye gahre sagar, aye uche aasmaan
yu laga ki meri ruuh me raasta bana jayengi
ek us saanjh ke saaye tale
baithe rahey hum der tak
dil se to ki baatein bahut
muh se kaha kuch bhi nahi
maanga khuda se raat din
tere siwa kuch bhi nahi
socha kabhi kuch bhi nahi
achha bura kuch bhi nahi
maanga khuda se raat din
tere siwa kuch bhi nahi
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